How To Have Phone Sex
Many of our callers have never had phone sex before, this is nothing to be ashamed of it just means you are new to this type of service. In order to get better at phone sex, you need to practice. We have spoken to many men and women about what to say what not to say during the call. Most operators agree a bit of foreplay and chat based around getting to know each other will produce better adult telephone UK sex fun.
In many ways chatting in a XXX way over your call can be very similar to 1 on 1 sex sexual experience. The main difference is you have never met each other and reportedly there is often a few initial comfort factors that need to be addressed before the call can really heat up. See below for our tips on the ice-breaking conversation styles.
How to Break The Ice
- Ask the operator about there day I,e “how’s the day so far”? This is a great ice breaker it allows the girl to naturally talk about themselves. In the normal world, the woman should do most of the talking with the man steering the direction of the chat.
- Ease into the sexual talk, women, in general, don’t like it when men rush into sex, they prefer a bit of a warm-up. We realize you are paying by the minute, but a 2-5minute warm up and introduction won’t break your bank account.
- Feel free to talk about your self during the ice-breaker, if you have had a great day tell the woman about it.
- We understand phone sex is horny, hot and sexual but do it with class. If you are into something kinky think of a way to talk about with style.
- Ask the girl answering your call all about her, what she likes to do in her spare time etc.
It is easy to have an adult chat and we do not want you to feel awkward when using our service. The tips above are a great short way to break the ice and awkwardness when making a call to one of our hot babes.
Tone Of Voice
When you are on the call and you are trying to get the girl all hot and dirty try lowering your tone. You will notice her voice getting lower in tone and a bit husky. It is scientifically proven that when women are excited their tone of voice will lower and get deeper. Sometimes when you initiate this she will follow. Remember you are the guy and it is up to you to take charge of the conversation.
Do not use a high pitch tone of voice to show your excitement. Keep calm, relaxed and be the man you have always wanted to be.
Speak clearly and do not mutter your words. If she can not understand what you are saying it will be hard for her to respond clearly and turn you on. She might confuse what you are saying and say something totally unrelated, making the call weird and confusing.
The Words You Use
It can be hard to use the right words on the spot. If you are struggling to use the above ice-breaker tips and put the pressure of the conversation back on the phone sex operator. After all, they are professionals and they are getting paid to make your call easy, hot and fun. No one likes pressure full stop.
Once you start getting the hang of sex over the phone, get as wild and descriptive as you like. There are some legal boundaries your operator can not cross, such as violent sex. So if she does not respond to certain conversation it is simply that she can’t.